Thursday, September 25, 2008

A month... already?

from Kristy...
I has officially been a month since we departed the US and landed ourselves back in Durban. To be honest, it feels like we've been back just a few days in so many ways. In other ways, it feels like a year. We can barely remember the smell of Dunn Brother's Coffee or the bird sounds that are so different from the sounds here. The month has gone by quickly because we feel like we have made such little progress in some of our biggest life and ministry goals here. We are back into the swing of things, and yet it feels like we have accomplished little.
Well, at least finally the house feels like home again and no longer looks SO BARE (a feeling, we think, that resulted from spending time in lots of very full American houses). The intense feelings of being torn from the ones you love best and who love you best have faded into a dull ache. We have, actually, fully re-established ourselves here. It has just taken time we did not expect it too.
I thought I would include a description of the bird sound so wake up to in the morning. We have a group of 7 Hadedas (pronounced Haw-de-daw) that nest in our neighbor's tree. I call them the little old grumpy men.

In Johannesburg, and on the beaches and savannas of southern Africa, it is the hadeda ibis, not the rooster, whose song, if it can be called that, announces morning. Har-har-har, he calls. Loud, raucous, guttural, the hadeda’s cacophonous call sounds like drunk men laughing. Har-har-ha-de-da.

Imagine a middle-aged man, grumpy and barrel-chested. He drinks too much, yells too often, laughs a lot but is quick to anger. Now. put feathers on him and stick him in a tree. Give him avian vision, a long curved bill, and a Red Sox fan’s hoarse yawp—and hello, hadeda

Anthony Schneider

Monday, September 22, 2008

We woke up without a president


Read the New York Times article for some good insight. Click HERE!

realistically I do see long term and short term problems and pain coming to South Africa because of the ANC forcing out President Thabo Mbeki.  He was Nelson Mandela's vice president for 5 years and has served for the past 9 as a president with great foreign relations skills and has helped a country that wants to better itself become a better place.  We're going to miss president Mbeki.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

2 Year Birthday bash!





Myles turned two on 12 September.  Rather than give a play by play of the b-day week (oh-yes, we did a week since cards came early and late in the mail and the party in the park was a couple days after the day:)
The quick run-down:
1. 11th, Myles and Mom make cup-cakes.  Myles learns that cup-cakes are REALY good. 
2. 12th, Myles brings cup-cakes to play school and doesn't stop asking his teacher Thandeka for "more cup-cakes please" the rest of morning!
3. 13th, Myles gets some presents, feeling a bit sick but not too sick to help mom make juice and play with his buddy Conner. Notice who Myles supports whole-heartedly in the pictures (thanks Grand-ba ba and Grandma Sue!)
4. 14th, the big Birthday celebration at the Botanic Gardens.  Lots of friends, food and mom's great B-sting cake (could rival b-day cup-cakes for enjoyability)
5. 14th, by bedtime Myles is really sick but has enjoyed his best b-day week ever!


Wednesday, September 3, 2008

We're Back!!!

After a 34 hour journey with our energized Myles, we made it back to Durban!  Highlight of the trip... a less then full plane that gave the 3 of us a whole row or 4 seats for the "big" flight from Washington-Johannesburg!  Kinda a big deal since we only paid for 2 seats (last time we can or would want to do that!).

My hope is that in the next days you will see some pics from our USA visit and updates on how we are doing here (ie Kristy slept for the first time in over 7 days last night, and the Frog experience).
Stay tooned!

Thursday, July 3, 2008

USA

OK, were in the States and overwhelmed with the amount of stuff here.  Besides that, I'm hitting a coffee shop every day or so.  Spending time with the family.  Looking forward to meeting my new nephew David (Joe n Jen's new born).   ok, Tony and Sarah (great friends from WSU) just showed up to the Dunn Bro's I'm at, so thats it for now!

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Xenophobia in South Africa



If you have been following the international news at all the last couple of weeks you would have seen South Africa making headlines for all the wrong reasons.  What has happened is that in the informal settlements and townships anyone that is not a "South African" has been targeted as a threat.  This "targeting" has lead to violence, robbery, harassment, and death.  Thousands of foreigners who already were marginalized and the poorest of the poor have become victims all over again in the country were they were seeking refuge and a new life.
Why?  That really is the question on many peoples lips.  From dinner at friend's houses to impromptu campus debates, this is a big deal!  I don't presume to know more than others on this crises,  but I see close ties to un-employment, the governments non-action on the Zimbabwe crises (I could go on and on about this, but I think I might be the only one who realy cares what I have to say about it!), and in many casses, people from other countries who were willing to work hard at jobs that South Africans just haven't tried to get or don't want and then these people from other countries end up getting more "stuff" then their un-employed South African neighbors do.
But the scary thing has been the silence from the South African government.   People are suffering, so we are doing what we can.  The photo's are of Ian and I delivering a car full of aid to the refugee camp that was hastily erected behind the University that Kristy and I  work at.

We gave blankets, sanitary stuff, baby nappies and then listened and prayed.  Most of the people at the refugee camp where we visited were from Malawi.  It was hard to hear what happened to these men and women who came to South Africa from one of the poorest neighboring countries.  Any of these sad faces could have just as easily been a part of the leadership /Pastors training that I did in Malawi just weeks before.  What we heard were sad stoies of abuse, fear, and depressed people who didn't know what to do or how they would survive.  
Pray for South Africa, a country that for so many years was leaving it's people in neighboring countries in fear becasue of apartheid and now is violently kicking those countries people out of SA.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

update by snail mail!

It's on the way!  Watch your mail-box for our newest Carlson Chronicle.  Never gotten one in the past?  then you had better hurry and e-mail us your address or you will loose out.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

May=oops.

Mid May and this is the first blog.... bad news as this has probably put off most blog viewers! I think that this blog has been good for me (Ben) as it has shown me just how hard it is for me to sit at a computer and write/surf/communicate in general! Not a train smash for most people but not great for someone who's ministry relies on people an ocean away remembering to partner with us financially and prayerfully!

That said, I just found out that we have a significant deficit in our funding and that if we don't make up the shortfall by Aug we will be in a situation where we will have to put all other ministry aside to focus on building our team of financial partners. For a guy who loves to be on campus and not behind a computer or on the phone that sounds like agonizing and slow death! Ok, maybe being just a bit dramatic!
But that said I'd like to invite you to pray about partnering with Kristy and I at UKZN! How you might ask... glad you did! Click here and start with a one time gift!

If you would like to make a recurring donation to a staff person, please call (719) 594-2327 or (866) 568-7827 (toll-free).

Ok, I'll keep you posted. Thanks to all our partners-prayer and financial. We couldn't be here without you. Here is a slice of life in the week of the Carlsons.

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Malawi



I will put up a few photo's now, just to give you a taste of what life is like in Malawi. with more stories and photo's of my trip in the coming days. The top photo is of my roommate while in Malawi. Mike. what an amazing man. This guy was used to advance the Kingdom in Malawi in such a significant way. It was unbelievable to end each day in Malawi listening to Mike share the most amazing stories of how God had moved that day as he counseled and prayed with couples, families and hurting individuals.
The second photo is me doing my best to wow the kids in Malawi with my amazing talent. (I had to prompt all the applause).

SALTphoto's





You asked for them!
Ok, maybe you didn't but I thought you would like them anyway. Two photo blogs I want to put up. this is all about the Easter Holiday SALT Nav conference in Jozi. Lots of peeps from all over southern Africa. It was a great time. and the drive down and back (7-8 hours each way) was a great way to connect and build deeper relationships with some of our key guys.
The highlight of the conference... when I sat down with 4 of the students from Durban and talked/challenged them to consider investing their lives for two years in Port Elizabeth with the Navs when they graduate. All 4 got excited, prayed, and are going to take a July survey trip of the campus there and to pray over the city as they decided if they will take the plunge! Pray with me as Sihle, Peleka, Nolwazi, and Gugu have been challenged with the command to "Go..."

Monday, April 7, 2008

There and back again...

Cheesy... but i feel a bit like a Hobbit adventurer. Needless to say, it was an experience going to the Ntchisi district in Malawi to conduct pastor/church/community leadership training on "the Kingdom of Jesus."
Myles is unpacking all the books on the book shelf, so this is all for the moment. Just wanted to say thanks for those who prayed for the trip! It was HUGE. Very emotional. Spiritual. and revealed to me a bit more of myself as I worked with Pastor Scott Countryman and the Berean team alongside World Relief Malawi.

Lots of peeps to talk about, blog about, pictures to show... but first let me go save my books!!

Sunday, March 30, 2008

MALAWI

Malawi here I come!!!
I'm off in just a couple of minutes (literally... though I don't think you could take that figuratively).  So please be praying for my trip and especially for Kristy and Myles at home.  It's hard to leave them behind.
pics.... from SALT and Malawi on my return.
thanks for staying with us on life in the evergreen city!!!

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

SALT

I'm taking a group of 9 to the Southern African Leadership Training (SALT) weekend in Johannesburg. It happens once every 4 years, and this year its in Jozi. Zambia, Malawi, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Namibia, and South Africa will be sending their Navigator leaders adn key students. So I"m hosting a "variety" evening and Thobe will be worship leading on the weekend.
Photo's and updates to come. I might even try to update at the conference since they have hot spots! We are entering a new age here in South Africa!

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Another baby?!



Ok, that title is just to see if anyone is reading the blog this week! Our friend Thabisa (a girl that Kristy discipled for 3 years while she was at UKZN) just had a baby girl Zenele. Myles was fascinated and lil' Zen was oblivious! We are seeing God work not only in students hearts but also through whole family groups! Thabisa and her family are just one example of our natural and authentic family ties that are emerging. We are building and connecting with family's not only on a spiritual level but loving each other and growing deep relational ties.

And for those interested in what Myles is discovering... himself in a mirror. We put this mirror down on the floor and all-of-a-sudden Myles had a new friend!

Monday, March 3, 2008

How I love my boy?!



Myles decided that being asleep in the middle of the night is overrated.  So last night he got up at 12:30 and was up till 4:30.  Love him... yes.  Frustrated and overtired today... yes!!!  All day training along with a decipleship meeting and an evening recruiting at one of the residence halls is looking like a long day ahead!