Thursday, December 31, 2009

The Meat


Having students in your life often means that you get invited to family functions, 21sts, mumulos (groom paying the bride price) etc. Here is my favorite part of any Zulu function, the guys sitting around the board of goat talking.

This is a great time to meet family and friends of the people who we are investing into. It lines up with our Navigator Core value of "family and relational networks in expanding the Gospel."

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Getting Practice


Seeing as it's been 3 years and 3 months since our own Myles was this little (ok, he was never 2.5 kg. started at 3.95 kg!) I thought it a good idea to see if I can still handle a baby.

Introducing Nkazimulo Mdluli. 2.86kg boy of Spho and Sthoko.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

If you know Ben...


If you know me (Ben) then you know that I love good coffee... ok you can call it a pretentious desire to find and make only the best I can source:) So now if you know anything about speciality coffee you know that authentic Blue Mountain coffee from Jamaica is some of the most sought after and rare in the world. All that to share my excitement with you about a friend of mine who is a coffee farmer and roaster here in South Africa who just bought a 15 kg Barrel of it to roast. Barrel cost $1,500. If I can have just one cup I think that I'll be happy for life... until I find someone who has that St. Helana coffee...

Moral of this blog comes from what Kristy and I have been reading together. Ecclesiastes 9:5-6 Go, Eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine [or coffee?] with a joyful heart, for it is now that God favors what you do.... Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love....
Solomon talks a lot about the meaningless days of our life, yet reminds us that what we do, who we are, the job we do, and what we even drink are a gift from God and should be enjoyed! I will be enjoying what I drink for at least a cup or two!

At Lou Lou's Jewelry Exhibition



If you follow the life of these Carlsons in the Evergreen City (Durban) then you know that on eof our good friends and past student Lou Lou Mgugudo is one of Kristy's best friends and competing for best Aunty of the year award with a couple other candidates.
You may remember that last year she was in Colorado Springs on a 3 month Navigator global student project. She came back to us a changed woman! We are excited about what God is doing in Lou Lou's life.
In the creative side of life she is finishing her honors degree in jewelry design in the next month and just put on an amazing exhibition to showcase her work. Watch all the fashion sites in the next year for Gudenuf, Lou Lou's design label!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Functions With Goat


One of the past students, Thabisa, along with her husband Sizwe, have become great friends. So it was great to go to the dedication of their lil one year old girl Zen.

There is always an after-party. The after-party starts with lunch, then has a goat laid out on a board (pictured) which is everyones favorite. The guys get to sit in a circle, share a knife and hack off pieces of goat to dip into the salt pile and chase it with boil bread. Women stay in another area (usually inside chopping stuff for the lunch.... oh ya, this is only the starter).

Next is the pudding (trifle with ice cream). Then the lamb curry made on a poijki. Finally the fire is started and the nyama (meat) can be Braaied (grilled).

Lots of fun. New friends made. Kristy and I figure this time with a past students family and relational networks is what we have been doing and desired to do since day one in Africa 8 years ago.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Protests, Soccer Bosses and Nav Community.

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South African President Jacob Zumu had struck fear into the hearts of many South Africans before he became president.  Now, six months later we find ourselves in a very anticlimactic state.  He's doing his best and it's not that bad at all!  I hear all sorts of people complaining and/or praising Obama, but with Zuma there just isn't a lot to talk about.  So that leaves me with the protests.

Poor service delivery is the problem of the day.  The ANC (leading SA gov. party) has not followed through on some promises and people are up in arms, burning tyres and demanding.... Jacob Zuma help them.


Second most important on peoples minds, just 230 days before the 2010 Soccer World Cup comes to SA... We have fired our countries head coach.  So maybe my decision of when to go back for our next USA visit is set.  If Bafana Bafana can't get their act together then why be here?


Last but not least is the growing Nav community in Durban.  We keep seeing God work, relationships grow and our community naturally growing and developing.


What's next?  Zuma quits singing Umshini Wami (Bring me my machine-gun), Bafana Bafana hires back our last Brazilian Coach for R7 million a month, and we light a braai (BBQ) for our growing community.

What's happening in the Cape Town Nav ministry?

I thought you would love to hear what our good friend and fellow Navigator Archie just wrote.

Hello hello,

Thank you to everyone who prayed for our Bible Marathon. It was such a meaningful time! This wasn't a fund-raiser or anything like that; we simply did it because of our desire to get a better grip on the Big Picture of the New Testament.

Below is the response of some of the 'athletes':

Bruce Nygaard (who initially proposed the idea):
___25 books___   
_____23 people_____
_______13 hours_______
___________1 great time__________

If anyone thought it might be boring to read the Bible for 13 hours with only short breaks and no discussion, our Bible Marathon on a Friday-Saturday proved the opposite! The more we read, the more we found ourselves energized as book flowed into book and morning flowed into afternoon. The best part for me was reading IN COMMUNITY. For example, whenever the Pharisees said something daft (which was always), we laughed. And whenever Jesus said something so brilliant that only Jesus could have said it, our exclamations punctuated it. It was nice not to have anyone putting their own spin on the message. And reading together as a group kept us on pace with God’s train of thought, rather than getting snagged by thorny details. We could better see what’s gloriously important (and what isn’t).

Zethu: God's word unedited, no one's opinion, no additions. Just His voice!  I described the marathon to a friend as being like standing under a waterfall and feeling the water gushing over you. You do not feel the [individual] droplets, you feel the goodness of the whole. You are cleansed, not only because you realize your faults, but because you’re reminded of the beautiful bigger picture…

Takadzani: Most of the time I read the New Testament with a very inquisitive mind, asking trivial questions, thus losing the central message-- the message of the cross and it's power! Reading the Bible in this manner helped me see the simplicity that we often complicate.

Thato: Everything came together for me. I get it now!

Felix: Doing this Bible marathon helped me see more clearly the simple fact that Jesus is being preached… It really is all about Him!

Mercy: Reading through the book of Hebrews in one sitting was just simply wow! It hit me again as to what Jesus actually came and did. And it was really great to feel part of a family. I feel encouraged to continue reading the Bible…

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Camping with the guys.



The Durban Nav guys are going camping today!  We've got a great group of guys in community here in Durban and we see the need to grow them and with them both spiritually and relationally.  It's part of our ethos, our value of individuals and our heart for each of these guys.  The longer we're in Durban the more I see that it's not about the "ministry," it's about relationships.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Lou Lou and Kristy


BFF? Well, at least partners in creativity.  Lou Lou and Kristy have started hand printing fabric.  Kristy is always pushing the boundaries and traditional ways of how to connect and help friends.  Always relational.  Always making an impact.  I am continually inspired!

Thursday, August 13, 2009

New Navigator South African Country Leader


The South African Navigators selected Mr. Paul Makhurupetsi as National Director on Sunday, 9th August 2009, following a process involving several other qualified candidates. The Selection Council, comprised of staff, ministry leaders and Nav board; met over the weekend to pray together and interact with shortlisted candidates. At the end, it was clear to the Selection Council that Paul Makhurupetsi is God’s choice to lead The South African Navigators into the next phase of our ministry.

Udobong Idemetor (Southern Africa - Zonal Director) was used by the LORD to facilitate what was undoubtedly a very spiritual process.

 “ What I really enjoyed about this weekend was that the whole weekend was bathed by the word of God and Prayer. Everybody prayed, we searched the Scriptures, we searched God ‘s voice, we focused on God, we worshipped God and from that the decision naturally flowed to select Paul Makhurupetsi as our new National Director. He has everybody’s support…we are very excited about his vision for our ministry. He is committed to the CORE of The Navigators…to the Vision of The Navigators. We are looking forward to the next phase in the history of The Navigators of South Africa.” Says Archie Van der Byl, Navigator staff. 

Paul Makhurupetsi responded to his nomination and eventual selection by reading from Isaiah 6:1-8.

 Paul met The Navigators in 1989 at the University of Witwatersrand. From 1995, he had been serving at the same university. His gifts and hard work contributed to the growth and strength of the student work in Johannesburg.  Paul will assume his new responsibilities at the beginning of 2010.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Family of 3... almost 4.


For those of you who didn't know we are having another baby!  Due: beginning of Jan.

Are we excited? Yes.
Are we "worried" about another energizer "Myles:" yes!
 On the student front.
As the students return from winter break we look forward to launching into the second semester with new Investigative Bible Discussions, renewed medical school Lunch-hour sessions, Core Team Bible study, Sat morning "guys" Bible time, and advancing the Gospel in the residence halls.

There has been a keen interest in past students to get back involved with the campus ministry and disciple key students.  We're excited about what the future holds at UKZN.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Pray For The Ankle!


So this post is... post-surgery.  Non the less, Bruce Nygaard (our Cape Town Navigator supervisor and good friend) just had ankle surgery.  It was a nasty bit of work.  they dug into his ankle bone and actually sawed off his heal to re-align it!  not a pretty picture.  Pray for his recovery and also for his family that he wouldn't drive them crazy as he is on bed rest for the next month!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

STEM Swaziland!



Short Term Experience in Missions (STEM) Swaziland.
That is what I was preparing this group of 17 students for over the weekend in Johannesburg.  It's an exciting venture to see this group set out on a mission to advance the Gospel.  The major focus of the group will be ministering to and connecting with individuals and families HIV/AIDs  virus.  Everything from making meals and cleaning sheets to praying with and for family units will be taking place.
Sihle and Lwazi are the the two representatives from Durban going on the trip.  They are key guys with a great love for the Lord and individuals.  both are in my Saturday morning group and the Durban Nav Core Team.  
Along with our guys from The University of Kwazulu-Natal there are also students represented from Wits University(Johannesburg), VAAL Tech(the mining area near Johannesburg), University of Cape Town(Cape Town), University Western Cape(Cape Town), and a couple Zimbabwe students going to the University of Botswana.
Our weekend was spent looking into God's word for inspiration and direction for missions, building team unity, learning about Swazi Culture, receiving practicleministry training skills and getting first hand stories of past students experiences on a STEM.  The trip ends 2 July.  Pray for the team and for the advancement of the gospel.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

A few words from Vuyo...


Late nights? Study groups? Dial 0800-PRAYER for help, because Ben Cannot help you!

As a former student myself I know there is nothing that brings a student closer to God than exams. Those dreadful weeks which drag out longer any student would like have descended on the UKZN students here in South Africa. Exam time is tough on every student but the Durban Navigators are lucky to have a group of friends to support them and pray with them through this time, even though it is not possible for the students to meet as often as they would like. I have faith all you guys will do great in your exams! Something to look forward to though is that once exams are over and students have returned from the holidays, you begin the 2nd half of the year as a Durban Nav member. It’s a chance to do more, learn more and enjoy the gospel more!

All the best to all the Durban Navigators! See you soon!

Vuyo

Sihle's date pushed back

Sihle is still waiting.  Money promised to him to help with the visa application didn't come through so he was not able to make his appointment today.  I have helped him secure the R1,500 needed to get in the door at the USA Consulate and we are re-scheduling later in the week.  Keep praying!

Monday, June 8, 2009

Sihle To the USA?


Sihle was selected to attend The Navigators Global Student Program (GSP).  We met him 2 years ago, helped him find an authentic walk with Jesus early last year and watched as he has become an energetic and bold proclaimer of the Gospel.  Pray with us as his initial application for a visa to the USA was denied (the US Consulate decided he had no good reason to return to South Africa once GSP was finished).  He goes in for a second try tomorrow (Tues 9 June).  We've armed him with 3 new letters from the Navs and I am going with him.  Pray for success and then funds for his flight that will hopefully be in 3 weeks!

Thoughts on change.

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Tuesday, June 2, 2009

To clarify

To update you all on where we are at in our financial budgeting and such.  Some questions have come up as to where exactly we are at in our budget... or are we finished with it?

Two things to clear it up: 

1.  We are not going back to the USA in 2009 as we are no longer behind in last years budget.  But we are still not up to full budget for 2009-2010!
2. To get to full budget we need to raise $1,500 in monthly support!  This covers ministry expenses as well as raising our 25% reduced salary back up to it's original amount. 

So keep praying trusting God with us for the final monthly support.  I don't like to keep thinking or talking about finances so bear with me and the "financial blogs!"
A great passage from Psalms that Manfred(South African country director) sent me:  

Psalm 50:9-12
9. I have no need of a bull from your stall or of goats form your pens, for every animal of the forest is mine, and the cattle on a thousand hills.  I know every bird in the mountains, and the creatures of the field are mine.  If i were hungry I would not tell you, for the world is mine, and all that is in it.

We made it!


We took a trip to the beach on Sunday afternoon to celebrate what God has been doing in our lives and ministry here in Durban.  Great friends and partners of ours have enabled us to stay in South Africa this year and not return to the USA to work on our funding.  Thanks to everyone who so faithfully gives to this calling to advance the Kingdom in Africa!  Without all our monthly partners sharing this vision we could keep doing what we are called to do!  Thanks. Ngibonga.

Myles is doing his best Zulu dance in the cold winter waters of the Indian ocean to celebrate.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Two of my favorite things in South Africa



 A little slice of Ben's life.  Sumptuous coffee (here is a photo of a great cappuccino with some latte art: double rosetta with a swan) and the best chicken wings (Only Chicken Lickin hot wings will do).  The Gospel, great coffee and Chicken Lickin hot wings (soul food).  Add Kristy and Myles and life is complete.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Ben working hard to not go to the USA!!!


Most people in South Africa would not say that, especially if their family and so many friends live in America.  But with the school year only half done and so much to do here as well as the fact that we were just in the USA last year makes me really not excited to go.  The reason for the potential trip.... Nav headquarters wants us to be in a healthier financial spot.  I understand.  I want to be in a better financial spot!  But all our partners and friends out there have been rallying behind us and i will check back in on Tues with YOU reading and the Navs to see if we have done enough to stay in Africa. 

Feeling like helping??? click on the link to the right! Or click here:)

Or give the Navigator accounting people a call:(719) 594-2327 or (866) 568-7827 (toll-free).

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

IPL


Got to go to an IPL (Indian Premier League) Cricket game.  First cricket game, after 7 years in SA!  Friends we have built a relationship with over the last  7 years that we are godparents for their son got me a ticket in the presidents suite!  sat with the owner and watched guys I've never heard of hit wickets for 3 hours!

Trial

To post via phone will be interesting since my computer is being
monopolized!

Saturday, May 9, 2009

The Sat AM Guys


Every Sat. morning at around 8:30 (give or take with Durban/African time) a group of us Nav guys meet for Bible Study, prayer, fellowship, accountability, and of course coffee.  Here are 4 of us, from left to right: Lwazi, Huli, Sihle, Ben (missing is Tweedy).  We're digging into Acts, savoring good coffee and building some great relationships.

Monday, April 27, 2009

When the guys get married.



Have you ever seen the movie "My Big, Fat, Greek Wedding?"
It's got a great line in it: "We never think it gonna happen to her!" Well that's how we felt about Phil! Ok, maybe thats being just a bit over the top, but still, when Phil rocked up at our house on Friday night he dropped the surprise of the year by telling us he was married last week! Thus the cheesy photo of Phil and I doing the traditional SA "I got married" handshake.

Not your typical way of getting married in South Africa. Usually taking almost a year to go through labola negotiations and planning. But then again Phil was never a "typical" guy. Phil has been a part of our lives for nearly five years, and last year moved to Johannesburg to finish up his medical internship. So it came as a shock and surprise to find him married. The couple decided to avoid a big ceremony (only 15 people attended), and have a signing ceremony. This was done to avoid the long family imposed waiting period that brides and grooms usually have to go through. We are so happy for Phil and Vume. They have been dating on and off for several years. Kristy went to Vumi's uMumulo (coming of age ceremony) two years ago, so we have had the opportunity to get to know her a little bit. We're excited to see "our" students growing and making big life decisions and continuing to walk with God.

Dragons


Myles is sometimes a dragon. Although he often says, "I'm not a dragon, I'm Myles."

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Still counting the votes


There are big differences between the USA and South Africa and the largest one today is that we may have to wait 7 days before we find out who won yesterday's presidential election.  Here is a queue of people waiting to vote at the elections this year.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Local cartoonist's thoughts...



Zapiro gets into all sorts of trouble with the government because of his very controversial cartoons.  Here are a couple of recent ones for you to get to know some peoples perspective of our soon to be president here in South Africa!  See these and more at the Mail and Guardian web-sight.

Election Day!


A big day here in South Africa.  National and provincial elections are taking place around the country.  Annd the next president is... most likely Jacob Zuma.  A click on his name will tell you the story of who we have to look forward to!  Pray for the country of SA as we enter into the time of Zumanomics.  
In the photo you see Zuma's picture on the ANC poster and above is the main opposition party's poster, the DA.  Stay tooned to find out who our next leader will be and if he will have the 2/3 majority to get done whatever he and the ANC want in the next 5 years! 

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

wanna know when we post?


In case you are a bit tech-un-savy but want to keep up with the blog as we enter new posts you can "subscribe."  Just scroll down and look on the right and you will see a lil' instruction area on what to do to never miss an update!  Because life without a lil fun/easter bunny ears/ n pics of South African aunties can be bad!

Growing the Navs!


I love this photo of Vuyo.  younger sister of one of the first women that Kristy met with on campus (Thabisa).  Vuyo used to work for Lou Lou n K. at Urban Grounds and since that venture has been put to rest, she is jobless, so.... she is helping me out with some admin stuff!  Thanks Vuyo.  The photo is a good one of how startled and most likely impressed she is with my vision for the Durban Navs this year:)

Friday, April 17, 2009

Vision Sandwich


Every Wed. at lunch time we have the "Vision Sandwich" at medical school.  The big surprising thing is that we talk about... vision!  I've been going through some of my and also The Navigators core values.  The time with these future Dr.s is great and rewarding as we explore the Bible together as well as have some great in-depth conversations.  The pic is of Huli and Melisa, two of the regulars.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Watching God Work


So I'm not your ordinary average traveling revival speaker.  But for two years in a row now I've been asked to put together a children's program/revival message for a kind of Daily Vacation Bible School at a couple different RURAL (all caps on purpose) church community.  

So this year we almost didn't make it.  we got stuck in the mud 4 times on the road to the area.  the 1 hour drive was creeping up on 2 1/2.  Myles was with and Kristy and I kept on thinking of sleeping in the Land-cruiser in the middle of rural Malawi on a mud road with a 2 year old... no way.  But after pushing hard with the help of 4 different groups of local kids 4 different times! we finally made it.  And what an amazing experience.  The photo above shows the pastor of the church excitedly leading back into the church building the over 100 kids who decided to give their lives to Christ after I spoke about the "Gospel and the Big Problem."  Jumping imaginary rivers and talking about Jesus really connected with them, and Myles!  Pray with us for these kids and the life changing decision that they made.

Monday, April 13, 2009

what it's like to travel with a 2 year old.


well, world view is very important to me.  I want Myles to expand his mind, think big, and have huge vision.  So that is why he went along to Malawi.  And this is what it looked like on the way home at Joburg airport.


Thursday, April 9, 2009

Malawi


what a trip!!!  Pictures and a great blog all about the adventure if you click this link.  Check it out, the team was amazing and thanks to Chris for the great blog!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Our University Students get fired on by police

Police called after students go on rampage

Chaos erupted during a strike at the University of KwaZulu-Natal on Monday, causing police to fire rubber bullets to subdue the crowd.

The university's student representative council began protesting last week against inadequate financial aid and academic exclusions.

However, UKZN officials - who were locked in a meeting with student representatives on 
Monday night - said the strike had possibly reached an end.

Police were called to the university after students became increasingly unruly, said police spokesman Superintendent Vincent Mdunge.

"Attempts were made to call students to order but they became violent and went on a rampage. Officers first tried to disperse them with pepper spray, but it didn't work. Rubber bullets then had to be used," he said.

Mdunge said police had not yet received an official report citing the number of people injured during the unrest.

"If officers had not intervened when they did the situation could have turned out a lot worse," he said.

A traumatised law student - who spoke on condition of anonymity out of fear of being victimised - said last night she burst into tears when screaming protesters barged into an exam venue and flung stink bombs into the room.

"They were rioting upstairs while we were writing the exam. About five of the protesters came downstairs in the lift and threw these stink bombs into the room. The police heard our screams, but by the time they got there the culprits had already gone back upstairs," she said.

The protest was like an ANC political rally, the student said. 

"All the protesters were wearing ANC T-shirts and carrying ANC banners. 

"They didn't even want to let us into our exam venue at first. It was a sea of yellow," she said.

While the unrest seemed to have subsided for a short period, absolute chaos broke out at about 1pm. 

"There were these loud bangs as police started firing rubber bullets at the crowd.

"Everyone was running in different directions. The protesters were screaming, smashing window panes and banging on doors, while trying to escape police," she said.

The violence sparked an urgent meeting between university officials and student representatives.

Trevor Wills, executive dean of students, described discussions with student representatives last night as fruitful.

"The students made their views clear and will report back to their constituencies. Hopefully, this will bring the protest to an end," he said.

  • This article was originally published on page 3 of The Daily News on March 24, 2009

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Alive with possibilities.

So we are at it again.  The core team of students in our Nav community are effecting change one person at a time and in small gatherings around campus.  A some-what "timid" group of 4 core students went knocking on first year med students doors unsure of what the response would be to an invitation to start investigating the Bible with them.  It turned into an overwhelming and encouraging outpouring of desire to meet and look at John with the team.  So many 1st years showed up that the next week they decided that they would have to split into multiple groups to be able to have good discussion!  Watch this space is stories emerge from the multiple Investigative Bible Studies that are launching all over campus by our eager students.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Aethiest's thoughts on Missions


I found this of great interest, especially as I go to Malawi in the Ntchisi district every year with Berean Baptist Church to do leadership training and medical clinics.

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/matthew_parris/article5400568.ece

As an atheist, I truly believe Africa needs God

Missionaries, not aid money, are the solution to Africa's biggest problem - the crushing passivity of the people's mindset

Before Christmas I returned, after 45 years, to the country that as a boy I knew as Nyasaland. Today it's Malawi, and The Times Christmas Appeal includes a small British charity working there. Pump Aid helps rural communities to install a simple pump, letting people keep their village wells sealed and clean. I went to see this work.

It inspired me, renewing my flagging faith in development charities. But travelling in Malawi refreshed another belief, too: one I've been trying to banish all my life, but an observation I've been unable to avoid since my African childhood. It confounds my ideological beliefs, stubbornly refuses to fit my world view, and has embarrassed my growing belief that there is no God.

Now a confirmed atheist, I've become convinced of the enormous contribution that Christian evangelism makes in Africa:....


If you like how this starts, click on the link to finish the story!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Core Workshops




Kristy and Thobe have captured our attention over the past few weeks. We are doing Sat. workshops focusing on our gifts, personalities, contributions, values, etc. Thobe spent 5 months interning with The Navigator People Resource Team at the Navigator headquarters in Colorado Springs and is now sharing that info with us! Kristy adds in great facilitation and partnership in leading the days. Kristy's background in communication and in personal contribution have been a help to Thobe. It's been fun and rewarding to see the things Thobe picked up in the States and is now passing on to students here in South Africa. We are all looking forward to the coming sessions with Thobe and Kristy!